long awaited–dad’s progress update

once again, for those who have been constantly clicking on the link,

hoping that i’ve update,

sorry to disappoint u over n over again.

the past few weeks had been taxing.

Dad:

we have decided to go  SGH for the op

on my birthday, we went SGH to meet Tumor Board Doctors, a family as a whole

decided on the date of admission and operation.

Admission date was on the 17th

Operation date was on 18th, 8.30am

early in the morning, we reached around 6.30am.

accompanied him thru out till he was pushed into the Operating Theatre

MeiShi was with me since 2pm waiting for dad to be out

but somehow we waited n waited but to no avail

Only till around 8.30pm then dad was pushed out of OT

MeiShi, thanks for being there with me, offering your shoulders to me when i was feeling helpless.

everyday after dad’s op, me n mum were there everyday

every single day

except for wednesday when i was down with high fever

Dad wad warded into ICA for about a week then HD ward for 5 days then  general ward for 4 days

all in all, he was hospitalised since 17th nov – 2nd Dec

this also meant that we haven been working for abt 2 weeks

according to the doctors, all the cancer cells were removed.

Yeah!

during his stay we encountered different nurses, nice ones n evil ones.

at times he was innocently taking his med, other times he refuses and threw it into the bin

till he was discharged, he threw tantrums like a child

attempting to throw the med away, refusing to have the dressing on, didn’t want to have his meals

at his state, we cant help but be like a sponge, absorbing all his displease.

as of now when i’m typing the post, he’s sleeping.

indeed, he’s really like a baby.

does nothing except eats n sleeps except for toilet visits

he’s going to start his radiotherapies n chemotherapies probably only in January

gonna be another series of suffering for my dad.

~ by neverletyougo on December 10, 2008.